This is the first time I open my love history here in my
blog not to sort publicity but to share lessons.
Once in a while I fell truly in love with someone; I wanted
to spend the rest of my life with him and wanted to take risk ahead of our
journey together. But sadly, it was not a happy ending. I was jilted
and broken
–hearted. I was shattered into pieces. It was also the time that I resigned in
my work in the private institution to seek a greener pasture in the public
schools. I was jobless, broken-hearted and lost a father. It felt like the
whole world was so heavy to carry. I was depressed. And the depression was even
getting heavier because I was always thinking of what I did wrong as to be
jilted, and asked myself what the other girl has that I do not have?. Eventually,
I found the answer- worldly satisfaction. I did not settle for less because I
know my value very well, and I thought that if I would reconcile to save our
relationship, how can I trust that person that much again?
That’s why I accepted the challenge of being heart-broken
and accepted the fact that life is not always a bed of roses.
So, here are the reasons why pain is blessing as well that I
want to share with you:
1.
It gives you a clearer vision of what and who you
want in life.
Just like the cleansing effect of our tears
in our eyes, pain gives us a new view- at this time in a more mature way.
2.
It makes you weak at the moment, but it makes
you even stronger in the end.
The pain gives you a preparatory stage of
the things that lie ahead that are larger than life, so that when you face
life, you are ready and strong.
3.
It makes you a good person.
Why? That is because you don’t want to hurt
others feeling and emotions because you know what it feels like. You are always
putting your shoes to others’ so as to not inflict pain in the process. It
makes you more humane.
4.
It lets you see who were there when you were
down, and who willingly gave help even they know you can’t give back.
5.
It gives you the idea of how depressing it is to
control life, people and everything.
Human as we are, we like to control things
within our might, but after experiencing pain, you just let things flow the way
they do and the way God wants for you.
You deserve nothing but the best in life. So, go with the
flow and take your heart and brain with you. Do not be in a hurry in life; good
things always come at the right time. If it is set for you, it is really for
you.
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